for creators who are done waiting to get paid…

brand bff

FALL '26 COHORT

an 8-week live experience where beginner creators learn the anti-pitch method and land their first brand deal — without sending a single cold pitch. part course, part mastermind, all bestie energy. 💘

KICKS OFF SEPT 7 NO COLD PITCHING. EVER. BEGINNER FRIENDLY 🌼
get on the waitlist 💘

doors aren't open yet — the waitlist hears everything first 🤭

SOUND FAMILIAR, BESTIE?

you're creating amazing content…
and making $0 from it.

you're posting consistently, your content is genuinely good, and people keep telling you that you "should be getting paid for this." (they're right, by the way.) but somehow the brand deals just… aren't happening. and everything you google tells you the answer is to cold pitch 100 brands a week, which is A WASTE OF OUR LIVESSSS. 🫠

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the pitches go nowhere

you've tried sending a few pitches and heard absolutely nothing back. crickets. tumbleweeds. the void.

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smaller accounts are getting deals

you're watching creators with half your following post #ad after #ad and wondering what secret handshake you missed.

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you have no clue what to charge

if a brand DID reach out tomorrow, you'd panic. is $100 too much? is $1,000 too little? who decided this??

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"just pitch more" isn't working

every guru says volume is the answer. but you didn't start creating to become a full-time cold-email machine.

THE BIG IDEA 💡

INTRODUCING

the anti-pitch method

BRAND DEALS WITHOUT COLD PITCHING

"cold pitching is the business version of messaging 100 strangers 'hey' on a dating app and wondering why nobody responds."

i'll be the first (and probably only) creator mentor to tell you that cold pitching is a big ol' waste of your time — and i will die on this hill. instead of begging brands to notice you, the anti-pitch method makes you the creator brands want to work with. we build your positioning, your content, and warm brand relationships so the deals come to you. like a good relationship, it's built on attraction — not desperation. 💘

the cold-pitch life 🥶

  • sending 100 copy-paste emails a week
  • getting ghosted (or offered "exposure")
  • feeling like a spam bot, not a creator
  • burning out before your first deal

the anti-pitch life ✨

  • content + positioning that scream "hire me"
  • warm relationships that turn into deals
  • brands sliding into YOUR dms
  • a repeatable system, not a numbers game
OKAY BUT WHAT *IS* IT?

not a course. not a community.

courses collect dust in lonely dashboards. communities turn into ghost towns where everyone lurks and nobody grows. so we mushed the best parts of both together:

a course 💻
a mastermind 🫶

= WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A COURSE AND A MASTERMIND BECOME BEST FRIENDS

you get the structure of a proven curriculum and the accountability of going through it live, together, with me in your corner the whole time. nobody gets left on read here. 📱

HERE'S HOW WE HANG

a week inside brand bff

no overwhelming content dumps, no "figure it out yourself" energy. every single week has the same cozy rhythm, so you always know what's next:

STEP ONE

watch the week's chapter 💻

one module of the brand bff curriculum unlocks each week. watch it on your own time, in your pjs, with snacks. we don't judge here.

STEP TWO

come to date night 🪩

our weekly live call — same time, every single week, all 8 weeks (yes, even catch-up weeks). we break down that week's topic together, workshop YOUR real situations, and answer everything live.

ALWAYS ON

live in the group chat 📱

stuck on a tuesday at 9pm? drop it in the group chat. you'll get answers from me and a whole group of creators moving through the exact same thing.

THE FULL LOVE STORY

8 weeks: from stranger to soulmate 💘

your relationship with brands follows the same arc as any great love story. here's exactly where we're going together (yes, there are two built-in catch-up weeks, because life happens and i refuse to let you fall behind):

week 1SEPT 7
the self-love era 🌼 module 1: campaign goals + your UVP — you can't attract the right brands until you know exactly who you are and what makes you different.
week 2SEPT 14
becoming a brand magnet ✨ module 2: the anti-pitch method + linkedin — the week everything changes. you'll learn the exact system that gets brands sliding into your dms.
week 3SEPT 21
the first date 🤭 module 3: intro calls, pricing + proposals — what to say, what to charge, and how to send a proposal that makes brands swoon.
week 4SEPT 28
coffee catch-up 🌼 no new module no new module drops this week — but date night still happens. come get caught up, get unstuck, and get your questions answered live. this week exists so nobody gets left behind.
week 5OCT 5
DTR: defining the relationship 🪬 module 4: contracts, negotiation + content approval — protect yourself, push back with confidence, and never get burned by a sneaky clause.
week 6OCT 12
keeping the spark 🐝 module 5: post bombs + post-campaign wrap-ups — how to over-deliver in the ways that make brands obsessed with you.
week 7OCT 19
soulmate status ❤️‍🔥 module 6: long-term partnerships + raising your rates — because one-off deals are cute, but repeat partnerships are how you build real income.
week 8OCT 26
the graduation catch-up 🌈 no new module — one final date night to wrap up anything unfinished, celebrate your wins together, and map out exactly what you're doing next. bring tissues (happy ones).
EVERYTHING YOU GET

inside your brand bff era

COMES FREE WITH YOUR SPOT
OH, AND ONE MORE THING…

you're not just watching. you're building.

every module comes with a matching section of the brand bff workbook — your module-by-module companion that turns everything you learn into things you've actually done.

watch the chapter, open the workbook, and answer the prompts for YOUR business — your goals, your UVP, your rates, your proposal. by the time we hit graduation on october 26, you won't just understand the anti-pitch method… you'll be holding a filled-out playbook for your entire creator business. 📆

because "i watched it" and "i did it" are two very different flexes. 😎

THE PINKY PROMISE

here's what i can promise you

by october 26, you will know your unique value, know your rate, and have a complete, repeatable system for attracting and closing brand deals — without ever sending a cold pitch.

no more guessing what to charge. no more staring at a blank email to a brand. no more wondering if you're "big enough" to get paid. you'll walk out of this knowing exactly how brand partnerships work from first hello to signed contract to long-term relationship — and you'll have a group of creator besties who watched you figure it out. pinky promise. 💘

kristen, founder of soulcialmate, laughing in a bright pink shirt YOUR NEW CREATOR BFF 🫶
HI BESTIE, I'M KRISTEN

your friend who's already been through it

i'm a creator monetization coach, an active creator of 10 years, and the founder of Soulcialmate — where every system i've built for landing brand deals (without losing my mind) lives.

sometimes i think i was put on this planet to teach creators that they don't have to work so hard to get paid. (also put on the planet to be Ziva's mom, foster dogs, watch way too much reality TV, and grow way too many flowers in my garden — but you get the gist. 😂)

i created the anti-pitch method because i watched too many talented creators burn out sending pitch #87 into the void, when the whole time the answer was making brands come to them. i've used this exact system to build long-term partnerships with brands i genuinely love — and now i want to hand it to you at the very beginning of your journey, so you never have to learn the hard way.

consider me the big sis who's already made all the mistakes for you. 🌸

LET'S MAKE SURE WE'RE A MATCH

is brand bff your person?

this is SO you if…

  • you're already creating content you're proud of — the deals just haven't caught up yet
  • you've never landed a paid brand deal (or you've landed one and have no idea how to do it again)
  • the idea of cold pitching 100 brands makes you want to lie down
  • you learn best with structure, real deadlines, and people cheering you on
  • you're ready to treat your content like the business it deserves to be

it's not your match if…

  • you haven't started creating content yet (start posting first, then come find me 🫶)
  • you're already landing consistent brand deals — you want Soulcial Suite instead, bestie
  • you're looking for a get-rich-quick promise (this is a real system that takes real effort)
  • you want to watch videos alone and never talk to anyone (the "together" part is the magic)
READY TO MAKE IT OFFICIAL?

join the fall '26 cohort 💘

8 weeks · sept 7 – oct 26 · live with kristen

$249

or 3 payments of $99 — because flexibility is friendship 🫶

get on the waitlist WAITLIST IS OPEN NOW — THE COHORT STAYS SMALL ON PURPOSE ✨
QUESTIONS? I GOT YOU.

everything you're wondering 👀

what if i can't make date nights live?

life happens, bestie! every date night is recorded and the replay drops right after, so you can catch up on your own time. plus the group chat is always open for questions — you will never actually be behind.

how much time do i need each week?

plan for about 2-3 hours a week: one module, one date night, and a little implementing + group chat time. (that's not counting the time you spend creating your own content, obviously — you're still a creator first. 😎)

do i need a big following for this to work?

nope — and honestly, this is my favorite question. the anti-pitch method is built on positioning, content, and relationships, not follower counts. brands care way more about the right audience than a big one. if you're creating great content, you have what you need to start.

i've never landed a brand deal. is that okay?

that's literally the point. 😂 brand bff was built for creators at the very beginning of their monetization journey. we start from square one and walk through everything together — no assumed knowledge, no dumb questions.

how is this different from the brand bff course inside soulcial suite?

the topics are the same proven system, but the experience is completely different. inside Soulcial Suite, brand bff is self-paced — no live calls, no cohort — and some of the material speaks to more advanced creators. this version is taught like i'm sitting across from a total beginner, with 8 live date nights, the group chat, and a whole group moving through it together at the same time.

what happens after october 26?

you graduate! 🌈 and if you're not ready to leave (most besties aren't), you'll have the option to roll right into Soulcial Suite — whichever plan fits you best — at an exclusive grads-only discount.

what's your refund policy?

if you get through week 1 and you're just not feeling it, i'll give you a full refund — no hard feelings, we can still be friends. 🫶 once week 2 begins, no refunds will be given.

still on the fence? dm me "bff" on instagram and let's talk it through. 💘

okay fine, put me on the waitlist 😂